Three Things You Need to Know About Custody Litigation

Custody litigation can be one of the most challenging experiences a parent can face. Understanding the nuances of this process is crucial to navigating it effectively. Here are three key aspects to consider, coming from the perspective of a compassionate attorney that cares about getting you through this process: 1. Custody Litigation is Expensive Custody […]
Yes, Amicable Divorce Is Possible!
An amicable divorce comes down to a few things: peace, preparation, cooperation, and patience. That is, you and your partner decide to keep the bigger picture in mind — meaning no finger-pointing or blame — and…
Bill and Melinda Gates Divorce Highlights Rise of Gray Divorce
Divorce rates among couples over 50—sometimes called ‘gray divorce’— have risen despite an overall decline. Some counselors expect soul-searching during the pandemic to accelerate the trend. Read more from Anne Marie Chaker in this article for The Wall Street Journal, featuring insight from Sodoma Law Managing Principal and Attorney Nicole Sodoma.
If Bill and Melinda Gates can’t make a marriage work, what hope is there for the rest of us?
Just imagine how many hours of couples therapy you can afford when you’re among the world’s richest people. Or the shared sense of purpose you could forge while raising three children and running a $50 billion charitable foundation with your spouse. Then imagine that it’s not enough to keep you together.
Sodoma Law’s Message to Clients and Community in regards to COVID-19
Update 11.16.2021: 26th Judicial District Modified Court Operations in effect through January 1, 2022 through January 31, 2022. Update 11.16.2021: 26th Judicial District Modified Court Operations in effect through December 1, 2021 through December 31, 2021. Update 9.28.2021: 26th Judicial District Modified Court Operations in effect through October 1, 2021 through October 31, 2021. Update […]
Protecting Yourself from Domestic Violence during a Pandemic

As we face an international pandemic, the fear of the unknown is growing. With schools closed and more businesses closing every day, as well as the increasing practice of social distancing, people are spending most of their time at home. For some, this may be a welcome change of pace. For others, most notably victims […]
Sodoma Law Completes Transformation of the Graham Building

The brick building at 217 North Graham Street in Uptown Charlotte was first erected and owned by Amzi Harman Turney, and his wife, Mary, in 1913. Only one owner later, at least two fires and even an airplane crash to its third floor, not much has been able to keep this building from thriving. Over […]
Gray Divorce: An Attorney’s Advice for Separating Over the Age of 50
“Gray divorce,” also known as “silver splitter” or “diamond divorce,” is a term used to refer to the increasing trend of late-in-life divorces. This term first became mainstream in 2004, when AARP published a study on divorce at “midlife and beyond,” and is generally used to describe adults aged 50 or older who are going […]
Resolved to Divorce

Originally posted in MomsCharlotte. Walk into any grocery store after the New Year and it’s predictable: “low fat” foods and shakes are everywhere you look. The lines at Weight Watchers are practically out the door. People are actually using their gym memberships! Or, Tony Horton and P90X may become your best new friend. (Do your […]
Post-Divorce Parenting: Falling into Place

Originally posted in MomsCharlotte. When I meet with a parent for the first time, they are most surprised to learn that the children will typically share holidays once parents separate from one another. I have seen more tears than I care to share – in fact, a nice tissue box was one of the first […]