What Not to Do During a Custody Battle
Custody battles in North Carolina are rarely decided by who “deserves” more time with a child, but by how each parent behaves under pressure. Judges are not just reviewing facts—they are observing patterns of communication, decision-making, and emotional control over time. What often goes unnoticed is that small, repeated actions during conflict can quietly shape […]
Three Things You Need to Know About Custody Litigation
Custody litigation can be one of the most challenging experiences a parent can face. Understanding the nuances of this process is crucial to navigating it effectively. Here are three key aspects to consider, coming from the perspective of a compassionate attorney that cares about getting you through this process: 1. Custody Litigation is Expensive Custody […]
Who Decides Where My Child Will Go to School?
Decision-making authority regarding your child’s health, education, and well-being is referred to as Legal Custody. The ability to make decisions regarding your child’s medical care, educational needs, and religious upbringing can sometimes be more important than the physical custody schedule. Legal Custody, just like physical custody, is determined based on the best interest of the […]
Co-Parenting During the Holidays
Whether you’re newly separated or have been following a custody arrangement for a while, co-parenting during the holidays can be difficult for even the most amicable of families. Holidays schedules can be the most contentious part of creating a Parenting Plan. While we try to keep your family celebrations in mind in crafting a custodial […]
Can I Get a New Judge Assigned to My Case?
Can I Get a New Judge Assigned to My Case? In the years following superstars Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt’s divorce their personal lives have been front page news for tabloids. Based on the coverage, most would agree the custody dispute between the two celebrities has been bitter and contentious. In an article from People […]
Maintaining Healthy Relationships
As a family law attorney, I am often asked, “How can I avoid a nasty divorce or custody dispute?” The answer I usually give? You do you – but don’t forget how important it is maintaining healthy relationships with the others, parents, or soon to be ex. Don’t just look at your history; consider relationship […]
Holiday Co-Parenting and COVID-19
When most people think of holidays they think of celebrations, overindulging in giant meals and sweet treats, parties, presents, passing on traditions, and making memories with friends and family. However, the holiday season can look very different after separation or divorce, particularly when children are involved. Add in a global pandemic and this holiday season […]
Your Child’s Keeper – Even After a Split
The unthinkable happened in Union County last Sunday. When the mother of 2-year-old Louis-Charles “Louis” Chenier went to pick up her son from his father’s house, she found her little boy’s lifeless body lying on the floor. Louis’ father was charged with his murder the next day after a preliminary autopsy determined the child died […]
Back to School: Co-Parenting for Divorced Couples
Summer can be a stress-free and flexible time of year for parents who are co-parenting children following a separation and divorce. The start of the school year can bring up problems that require attention and planning, especially if you want to successfully navigate the upcoming school year harmoniously together. Let’s face it – how many […]
Why Co-Parenting with Your Ex Doesn’t have to Raise Your Temperature this Summer
Schools out, summer is here, now what? Co-parenting with your ex can be hard enough throughout the school year, but when summer starts it can bring a whole new set of challenges for parents to face. Summer in North Carolina is hot already, so to avoid turning the thermometer up, take these small proactive steps […]